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@abackstrom @sonya Curious, how do you know this? On what grounds is he blocking them?

I couldn't find a Mastodon CoC anywhere. I found this (mastodon.social/terms) which, unfortunately, doesn't have anything close to a CoC at all.

I realize that they're still trying to get all their ducks in order and legal docs take time, but having a clear "no abuse" policy seems pretty important, especially given that rampant abuse is the reason why a lot of us are here.

@csilverman @abackstrom here's some background on this:

1) community.highlandarrow.com/no

2) community.highlandarrow.com/no

(partisan sources but still good for getting up to speed)

I didn't realize how much of the Fediverse was blocked from .social until I switched to Maly because .social was struggling with bear the traffic. Then I was pissed that this wasn't made clear up-front.

@abackstrom @csilverman IIRC the blocked and/or sandboxed instances are shitposter.club, freezepeach.xyz, gs.smuglo.li, and community.highlandarrow.com

but there may be more that are lower-volume so I'm not aware of them in general, or that I'm forgetting at the moment

@csilverman @abackstrom to be absolutely explicit, I think any instance admin should be able to block whatever other instances they want – but they should also be totally transparent about it with new users, so that people know what they're signing up for

@sonya @csilverman @abackstrom

Agree. A simple 'does not federate with' or 'only federates with' (like awoo.space states) on the about would be fine.

What about existing users though? I don't want to have to abandon my account & all its history if, in the future, the admin of my server has a falling out with the admin of another server? (Not that I think that's likely with tchncs.de but if I'd picked another server I might not have been so lucky).

Sonya Mann ✅ @sonya

@frankiesaxx @csilverman @abackstrom yeah, I think that's a tough one. multiple admins of new instances have told me "I don't block any other instances right now, but I reserve the right to decide to" — being able to port your identity and bring your social network with you is *the* key missing feature

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@sonya @csilverman @abackstrom Agree. I don't think it's unsolveable but it's probably not a priority at this moment. I imagine back end stuff, load management and scalability and other stuff is probably taking precedence.

I think you can export and load follows and blocks at least, but yeah, I'd ultimately like to see the ability to port an entire account history, including toots, boosts, stars etc.